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  • Kink Education,  Personal/Life Stuff,  Sex Education

    “Good Girl”- The Praise Kink

    July 17, 2023 /

    Ohhhh… you came to my blog to read about the Praise Kink? Aren’t you a good girl/boy 😉 Sorry, couldn’t resist! Anyway, today I am going to start writing about my own kinks and hopefully giving some educational content while I’m at it. We’re starting with the Praise Kink because I personally think that it is one of the most beautifully sweet kinks around! It’s also so common, that I had no idea it was actually a kink until a few years ago! Now, for clarity, whenever I blog about specific kinks, of any kind, I am primarily discussing it from a personal perspective. I’m not an expert by any…

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    Forest Fae- Photoshoot with Tacet Lens

    July 15, 2023 /

    I had the most beautiful photoshoot at the start of May, one that I’ve been desperate to do for a while. About a year ago I bought this cheap, but very pretty, deer mask off of Shein of all places. It had a very quirky feel, and reminded me of the Forest Spirit in Princess Mononoke (if you haven’t watched that film, go and watch it now!). I’d planned to use the mask for several photoshoots over the last year, but for one reason or another the shoots never happened. Then Fraser of TacetLens got in touch with me with some free time to shoot on a beautiful spring evening,…

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    BDSM Test- What’s Changed Since 2022!

    May 7, 2023 /

    Good day you kinky weirdos! If you’ve been following me for a while then you’ll remember that last year I did the BDSM test and wrote about the results on my blog. If not then you can find that particular post here if you’d like to refresh your memory. Even if you don’t want to, part of what I’ll be doing today is looking at what has changed in terms of my kinks over the last year, so if you’re feeling lazy it’s all good bestie, I got you! Now as I said in the previous blog, I think it’s important to assess your sexual kinks every year or so.…

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    You Spin Me Right Round Baby Right Round- Photoshoot with CuteKittenKink

    May 6, 2023 /

    Hello hello hello my darlings! It’s been a while since I’ve written anything about my work or my sex life. This blogpost will be about the former. My recent photoshoot with my amazing, sweet and fun friend Kai (otherwise known as Mistress Kat or CuteKittenKink) was over a month ago and I feel now is the perfect time to talk about it. So get a cuppa, settle down and lets talk about what a kink style photoshoot actually looks like, because its not what people assume. Kai got in touch to ask if I’d chaperone them to a photoshoot in a dungeon in Edinburgh. It is wise, for those of…

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    Twelve Days of Kinkmas!!

    December 12, 2022 /

    Welcome to official Christmas Season my darlings! How have we gone another full rotation around the sun already? It doesn’t seem that long since I last put up my Christmas tree and gave my cats festive catnip mice (they have red and green scarves and little winter hats). Well, we are back here again, regardless of the wibbly wobbly nature of timey wimey stuff and this year I’m doing things a little more low-key. I’ve haven’t had any professional photoshoots on the run up to the festive season, instead choosing to do my own photography. I’ve not had much in the way of content prepped in advance either, mostly choosing…

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    Spooky Month Photoshoot- Behind the Masks

    October 24, 2022 /

    TW: Boobs out, horror content and sharps (knife and hatchet) Ahh Spooktober! My favourite month of the year and the time that my creative content turns spooky, taboo, dark and twisty. If you are already familiar with me as a full human, then you’ll know I adore horror. Books, films and games in that genre give me all the happy, plus that unnerved feeling that only comes from a dark, terrifying story. So, when organising my most recent photoshoot I simply had to go full spooky bitch to celebrate my favourite time of year! The photographer I was planning on working with is also a sculptor with loads of masks…

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    Gritty Nude Photoshoot (28th June 2022)

    July 8, 2022 /

    Don’t scroll unless you’re ok seeing my boobs, body and several kink heavy photos! You’ve been warned!! It’s amazing being back in front of the camera after a four month hiatus from professional shoots. My mental health has been a little all over the place and I forgot how much I love the release I get from modelling. It’s so emotionally satisfying to be able to take the mask off for a little while and show the gritty, intense emotions that I spend a lot of my life hiding. Although I doubt you could call these photos “sexy” (unless, like me, you enjoy the primal kink), they are powerful. I…

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    Let’s Do the BDSM Test!

    June 19, 2022 /

    If you want to know more about you as a kinkster, or even just you as a sexual being, then a good place to start is The BDSM Test. The BDSM test is exactly what it says on the tin, and will ask you a series of questions on activities associated with kink, BDSM and sex in general. All the questions are answered on a sliding scale to give the most accurate results. Even if you don’t think you are kinky at all, or you think you know your kinks pretty well, it’s a good tool to explore and see a side of yourself you may never have considered before.…

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    Ten Small Things That Make Me Melty!

    June 12, 2022 /

    Yup, it’s another one of these posts! Today we’re going to talk about ten small actions/words/behaviours during sex or foreplay that I find a huge turn on. These are all SMALL things. There won’t be a random statement like “oral sex is a turn on”, so don’t expect that. I’m specifically talking about the little tiny things that can take you from 0-100 in an instant. The things that make your knees weak and your breath catch. The things without which sex would probably suck! This is just my personal list and I recommend that you make your own. Knowing yourself is just as much a vital part of creating…

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    Once Upon a Time I Had Writers Block

    June 8, 2022 /

    Once upon a time there was a girl sitting in a coffee shop. She was drinking copious amounts of tea, while pouting and huffing about the fact that she has been suffering from crippling writers block. While looking at the 15+ drafts in her blog she felt completely uninspired to complete any of them. It was like they were staring back at her screaming “finish meeee!!” Regardless of the amount of work-in-progress posts that were gathering dust, none of them really hit on anything she was actually in the mood to write about. A clever reader would inform this poor human that it’s because she needs to write for her…

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