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It’s 2025 And I Have Plans!
Happy New Year my sweet darlings! Welcome to 2025. For some inexplicable reason, I appear to have started the year with a wave of motivation. I have lots of amazing ideas and plans for this year which I can’t wait to share with you guys. Unsurprisingly that is what this post is going to be all about! These are rough goals that I’m giving you guys, mostly because some things are still awaiting confirmation, but I’m super hyped regardless. I’m going to consider this post to be a way of holding myself accountable to commit to my projects and hopefully see my business grow and flourish. Without further ado, lets…
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It’s That Time Again- BDSM Test 2024
As is now surely traditional, we are at that time of the year where I retake the BDSM Test. Why do I repeat it every year? Well, that’s simple enough to answer. I do it because as humans we are constantly evolving in our desires and checking in with yourself is healthy! You can find last years test and analysis here, but if you can’t be bothered reading that first it’s fine! I’ll be doing a comparison between last years results and this years results in this post, so you won’t be missing much. Without further ado, lets find out what sort of freaky sexy nonsense is currently making my…
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Proud To Be The “B” and “Q” In The LGBTQ+
Good day my lovelies, and welcome to another blog. As per usual, my intention to post this in a certain time frame did not come to pass, but lets be honest, I’m never on time for anything anyway! May as well stay in character right? 😛 So in (belated) celebration of Pride Month, I thought now might be a good time to talk about my own journey as a queer person. Specifically I want to talk about the happy memories I associate with my sexuality and the beautiful experiences I have had as I’ve come to accept the beautiful and unique way that I express love. Before I get started,…
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Well Hello Again! Reintroducing Me To You!
Well hello my lovelies. I know I haven’t written in a while… actually I haven’t done much of anything for a while. Let’s just say it’s been a year and leave it at that. To break myself back into blogging again, as well as using my socials properly, this post is going to be a cute reintroduction of myself to you lovely humans who still do me the honour of following me on my weird journey through life. To make this a little more interesting, I’ve asked my friends and followers to give me a few question prompts to answer. Lets be honest, introduction posts are usually pretty tedious, so…
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Amsterdam Day 4- Workshops and Networking!
It’s Day 4 of my Amsterdam trip! Welcome to the last day of the XBiz Conference and most importantly The XBiz Europa Awards!! I’ve decided to break this day into two blogs because it was a very long day at the conference, and then we had the Awards at night, so I think it makes more sense to split this one. It was the day that we had really travelled to Amsterdam for, and I woke up in a much better mood than I had the morning before. The weather had taken a slight turn for the cooler (if 28c can be considered cool by Scottish girl standard) and I…
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Amsterdam- Day 3… The Learning Begins!
I’m sorry these blogs had to take a back seat. I’ve not been in the headspace to write and I’m going through it a bit just now. So please enjoy Day 3, and keep an eye out for the rest as I get them completed and published. Thank you for your patience everyone xx This may be the day I’d been looking forward to the most. Maybe it’s the nerdy librarian in me, but Day 3 was the first of two full days of workshops, networking, active learning and copious amounts of note taking. Welcome to the start of the XBiz conference proper! I’m not going to lie, this was…
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Amsterdam Day 2- Return of The Spice
My second day in Amsterdam was so busy that any attempt to even take notes during the day was almost impossible, so please forgive me if this particular post jumps back and forth a bit while I put the day back together in my scattered brain. I might need to consult with Kai, Raven and River to get the order of things right, but if it’s in the wrong order I’m sure you guys won’t hate me too much for it. Kai and I woke up reasonably early on the second day, after a really dodgy sleep. The room was BOILING! Even with the windows open, there wasn’t a single…
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Amsterdam Day 1- All Travelling and No Spice
So this first blog is more a travelling one than anything else. First day was never going to be much in the way of spicy given our flight was at 7am and we had to be up at 3am. Honestly, what sort of ungodly time of day is that to be awake?! I resent having to be up any earlier than 7 if I can avoid it on a normal day. Anyhoo… here’s a quick synopsis of Amsterdam Day 1. As I said above, we got up at 3am to get to the airport in plenty of time. We’d already checked in online, but had to drop off our bags…
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Emergency Blogpost: Being Deplatformed… Again
Yup, it’s happened again. Once again I have had one of my social media platforms suspended/banned. Not because I have broken any of the guidelines or terms and conditions, but because I’m a sex worker. I woke up this morning (6th of August) having had my Instagram suspended, but with no actual information provided as to why I deserved suspension. I have had more information since, but I’m getting ahead of myself. Honestly, this couldn’t come at a worse time for me, in terms of my mood. I’ve been boiling over levels of angry the last four or five days, with my temper ready to blow at any moment, so…
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The Boobs Out Book Club!!
Hello you wonderful darlings! This is just a little blogpost to make sure that you lovely humans haven’t missed the first couple of episodes of the long anticipated Boobs Out Book Club. Once a month (or so) I will be dropping a video on my spicy pages talking about the books I’ve been reading lately, taking recommendations and reviewing what I’ve read. The only thing that makes it different from a normal book review or book club is that I will be doing it topless. Now you may ask why I would want to do it that way? Well there are a couple of reasons. The first is that when…
