Happy New Year my sweet darlings! Welcome to 2025. For some inexplicable reason, I appear to have started the year with a wave of motivation. I have lots of amazing ideas and plans for this year which I can’t wait to share with you guys. Unsurprisingly that is what this post is going to be all about! These are rough goals that I’m giving you guys, mostly because some things are still awaiting confirmation, but I’m super hyped regardless. I’m going to consider this post to be a way of holding myself accountable to commit to my projects and hopefully see my business grow and flourish. Without further ado, lets get into it!
The first project I am very excited about is my YouTube channel. I have been meaning to do this for years, and yet for some reason I’ve consistently procrastinated my way out of doing it. My ADHD brain has always found an excuse to nope out of doing it, but I’m not allowing that nonsense anymore. It doesn’t have to be perfect at first, I just have to actually start doing it! From experience, I know that my content will get better over time as I get used to creating in a new format. Being honest, I know it’s the anxiety of doing something new and the work it will take to build it into a working platform, but now I finally feel ready for that challenge. I’ll be using the my channel as a vlog, an education space and also as a place to post the pre-scene negotiations and post-scene debriefs I have with the wonderful creators I am privileged to work with. I’m not going to promise how often I will post, mostly because I know that the moment I do that I will panic if I don’t meet that expectation, so instead we are going to tentatively aim for a couple of videos a month. I have some really cool videos ready to drop so make sure and keep an eye on the channel here: Curiosity Kinked The Cat.
The next super exciting project I am running this year is all about female pleasure. This one I am very excited about! Let’s be real here, most porn is designed for the male gaze, and has very little to do with the reality of female pleasure. The biggest problem with this is that it makes the assumption that the female orgasm is as simple as following a set of instructions that is one size fits all. Shock horror, that couldn’t be further from the truth! I know this may come as a great disappointment to many people who assume that rubbing at a woman’s clit like a controller joystick is a guaranteed way to make them a crazy mess, but I’m not here to peddle falsehoods. The truth of the matter is that every woman is different, and reaches climax in different ways. Yes there are some things that tend to be fairly common techniques towards that end, but by no means is it a guaranteed roadmap. With all this in mind, a project I am excited to embark on this year is a series of videos with other AFAB creators talking about and sharing the ways in which we reach orgasm. This will not be a series of videos for the male gaze, but a video celebrating female pleasure, open communication and education! Honestly, I am so excited about this project and I can’t wait to get started with it!
Speaking of collabs, I am ramping up my collaborations this year! So far February and March are starting to fill up with awesome humans that I can’t wait to work with. Pushing my brand and creating new contacts in the industry is a huge goal for me this year. I’ve spent far too long being scared to reach out to other creators, so I’m trying to remedy that. So far it’s going pretty well! I’ve made some awesome new contacts so everything is currently looking bright and shiny for my 2025 content, which I’m sure my subscribers will be very excited about 😛 . Including my first MMF, which I can’t wait to have on camera! Further than that though, I will be doing professional level productions this year! I can’t describe how excited I am about that! Not just because it’ll be a fun experience, but because it gives me even more insight into how the industry works. Experience is never a bad thing and I want a whole host of cool experiences this year. Then I can write and vlog about it for you guys. It’s a nice circle effect isn’t it?
Next up is a project that has been in the works for a while, but we are finally going to make it a reality in 2025, Kai and I are going to be starting our own podcast! We’ll be talking about everything from our time in the adult industry, sexuality, sex education, kink and generally setting the world to rights. We’ve always had the best conversations, so I can’t wait to share that level of madness with a wider audience. Both of us feel that our industry isn’t humanised enough, so this is a project we are both really passionate about. There’s even a name ready to go… but you guys will have to wait on that one. Patience is a virtue my sweet loves!
Finally, I have some other amazing plans with my bestie Kai, but unfortunately you guys will have to wait on details on this one. When we are ready to announce we will do so together. The only hint I will give is that we will be working to create a better sense of community among UK sex workers. Yeah, I know, I’m edging you guys. I know you love it 😉
Ok, that’s a wrap! There are other ideas and goals for this year, but I don’t want to overcrowd myself with commitments or my brain will go into ADHD panic and I won’t get anything done. If you can’t tell I’m really excited to see what this year has in store for me and my brand. Lets get those positive vibes and push forward towards new and exciting things!
All my love, Kitty! XXX