Sex Education
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It’s That Time Again- BDSM Test 2024
As is now surely traditional, we are at that time of the year where I retake the BDSM Test. Why do I repeat it every year? Well, that’s simple enough to answer. I do it because as humans we are constantly evolving in our desires and checking in with yourself is healthy! You can find last years test and analysis here, but if you can’t be bothered reading that first it’s fine! I’ll be doing a comparison between last years results and this years results in this post, so you won’t be missing much. Without further ado, lets find out what sort of freaky sexy nonsense is currently making my…
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Proud To Be The “B” and “Q” In The LGBTQ+
Good day my lovelies, and welcome to another blog. As per usual, my intention to post this in a certain time frame did not come to pass, but lets be honest, I’m never on time for anything anyway! May as well stay in character right? 😛 So in (belated) celebration of Pride Month, I thought now might be a good time to talk about my own journey as a queer person. Specifically I want to talk about the happy memories I associate with my sexuality and the beautiful experiences I have had as I’ve come to accept the beautiful and unique way that I express love. Before I get started,…
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Emergency Blogpost: Being Deplatformed… Again
Yup, it’s happened again. Once again I have had one of my social media platforms suspended/banned. Not because I have broken any of the guidelines or terms and conditions, but because I’m a sex worker. I woke up this morning (6th of August) having had my Instagram suspended, but with no actual information provided as to why I deserved suspension. I have had more information since, but I’m getting ahead of myself. Honestly, this couldn’t come at a worse time for me, in terms of my mood. I’ve been boiling over levels of angry the last four or five days, with my temper ready to blow at any moment, so…
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“Good Girl”- The Praise Kink
Ohhhh… you came to my blog to read about the Praise Kink? Aren’t you a good girl/boy 😉 Sorry, couldn’t resist! Anyway, today I am going to start writing about my own kinks and hopefully giving some educational content while I’m at it. We’re starting with the Praise Kink because I personally think that it is one of the most beautifully sweet kinks around! It’s also so common, that I had no idea it was actually a kink until a few years ago! Now, for clarity, whenever I blog about specific kinks, of any kind, I am primarily discussing it from a personal perspective. I’m not an expert by any…
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Let’s Do the BDSM Test!
If you want to know more about you as a kinkster, or even just you as a sexual being, then a good place to start is The BDSM Test. The BDSM test is exactly what it says on the tin, and will ask you a series of questions on activities associated with kink, BDSM and sex in general. All the questions are answered on a sliding scale to give the most accurate results. Even if you don’t think you are kinky at all, or you think you know your kinks pretty well, it’s a good tool to explore and see a side of yourself you may never have considered before.…
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Ten Small Things That Make Me Melty!
Yup, it’s another one of these posts! Today we’re going to talk about ten small actions/words/behaviours during sex or foreplay that I find a huge turn on. These are all SMALL things. There won’t be a random statement like “oral sex is a turn on”, so don’t expect that. I’m specifically talking about the little tiny things that can take you from 0-100 in an instant. The things that make your knees weak and your breath catch. The things without which sex would probably suck! This is just my personal list and I recommend that you make your own. Knowing yourself is just as much a vital part of creating…
