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Well Hello Again! Reintroducing Me To You!
Well hello my lovelies. I know I haven’t written in a while… actually I haven’t done much of anything for a while. Let’s just say it’s been a year and leave it at that. To break myself back into blogging again, as well as using my socials properly, this post is going to be a cute reintroduction of myself to you lovely humans who still do me the honour of following me on my weird journey through life. To make this a little more interesting, I’ve asked my friends and followers to give me a few question prompts to answer. Lets be honest, introduction posts are usually pretty tedious, so…
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Emergency Blogpost: Being Deplatformed… Again
Yup, it’s happened again. Once again I have had one of my social media platforms suspended/banned. Not because I have broken any of the guidelines or terms and conditions, but because I’m a sex worker. I woke up this morning (6th of August) having had my Instagram suspended, but with no actual information provided as to why I deserved suspension. I have had more information since, but I’m getting ahead of myself. Honestly, this couldn’t come at a worse time for me, in terms of my mood. I’ve been boiling over levels of angry the last four or five days, with my temper ready to blow at any moment, so…
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“Good Girl”- The Praise Kink
Ohhhh… you came to my blog to read about the Praise Kink? Aren’t you a good girl/boy 😉 Sorry, couldn’t resist! Anyway, today I am going to start writing about my own kinks and hopefully giving some educational content while I’m at it. We’re starting with the Praise Kink because I personally think that it is one of the most beautifully sweet kinks around! It’s also so common, that I had no idea it was actually a kink until a few years ago! Now, for clarity, whenever I blog about specific kinks, of any kind, I am primarily discussing it from a personal perspective. I’m not an expert by any…
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Twelve Days of Kinkmas!!
Welcome to official Christmas Season my darlings! How have we gone another full rotation around the sun already? It doesn’t seem that long since I last put up my Christmas tree and gave my cats festive catnip mice (they have red and green scarves and little winter hats). Well, we are back here again, regardless of the wibbly wobbly nature of timey wimey stuff and this year I’m doing things a little more low-key. I’ve haven’t had any professional photoshoots on the run up to the festive season, instead choosing to do my own photography. I’ve not had much in the way of content prepped in advance either, mostly choosing…
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Let’s Do the BDSM Test!
If you want to know more about you as a kinkster, or even just you as a sexual being, then a good place to start is The BDSM Test. The BDSM test is exactly what it says on the tin, and will ask you a series of questions on activities associated with kink, BDSM and sex in general. All the questions are answered on a sliding scale to give the most accurate results. Even if you don’t think you are kinky at all, or you think you know your kinks pretty well, it’s a good tool to explore and see a side of yourself you may never have considered before.…
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Ten Small Things That Make Me Melty!
Yup, it’s another one of these posts! Today we’re going to talk about ten small actions/words/behaviours during sex or foreplay that I find a huge turn on. These are all SMALL things. There won’t be a random statement like “oral sex is a turn on”, so don’t expect that. I’m specifically talking about the little tiny things that can take you from 0-100 in an instant. The things that make your knees weak and your breath catch. The things without which sex would probably suck! This is just my personal list and I recommend that you make your own. Knowing yourself is just as much a vital part of creating…
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Once Upon a Time I Had Writers Block
Once upon a time there was a girl sitting in a coffee shop. She was drinking copious amounts of tea, while pouting and huffing about the fact that she has been suffering from crippling writers block. While looking at the 15+ drafts in her blog she felt completely uninspired to complete any of them. It was like they were staring back at her screaming “finish meeee!!” Regardless of the amount of work-in-progress posts that were gathering dust, none of them really hit on anything she was actually in the mood to write about. A clever reader would inform this poor human that it’s because she needs to write for her…
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Sex in the Media Conference, Dundee 2022- The Speech I Deviated MASSIVELY From
Unless you missed my posts about it, you’ll know that on Saturday the 19th of February I was on the panel at the Sex in the Media Conference in Dundee. I was so honoured to be part of a panel of such amazing people, all of whom are wonderful examples of sex and kink positive educators, especially given I’ve only really been in the industry for a year. I was only told I was going to be speaking on the Tuesday before the conference, so I didn’t have the time to put together a full PowerPoint presentation. Instead I decided that I wanted to use the opportunity to talk about…
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Cosplay and Porn Plans for February-March 2022
It’s 2022 and I have many a naughty cosplay plan! I’ve written a few long and complicated blogposts lately, and a few ones that are less than the happy-go-lucky posts I wanted to be making for you guys. So this post is just a fun one to give you guys an update on my naughty cosplay and porn plans for the months of February and March. Lets see how many of these plans actually happen haha! I guess I don’t really have any excuses or reasons not to throw myself headlong into content creation and working with other creators now, so I should definitely get more done in the next…
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A Summary of 2021
So the Bells have rung and 2021 is now behind us, leaving me feeling reflective. I could be one of those people who are delightfully upbeat and optimistic about the idea of the New Year, with all the potential it could bring… but I’m not one of those people. You’ll get no resolutions from me in 2022, or in any year for that matter. If you can’t keep to a personal challenge the rest of the year, why would making one on January 1st be any different? I prefer to always strive to be a better throughout the year, instead. Enough of that though. This post isn’t about my views…
