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Amsterdam Day 2- Return of The Spice
My second day in Amsterdam was so busy that any attempt to even take notes during the day was almost impossible, so please forgive me if this particular post jumps back and forth a bit while I put the day back together in my scattered brain. I might need to consult with Kai, Raven and River to get the order of things right, but if it’s in the wrong order I’m sure you guys won’t hate me too much for it. Kai and I woke up reasonably early on the second day, after a really dodgy sleep. The room was BOILING! Even with the windows open, there wasn’t a single…
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Amsterdam Day 1- All Travelling and No Spice
So this first blog is more a travelling one than anything else. First day was never going to be much in the way of spicy given our flight was at 7am and we had to be up at 3am. Honestly, what sort of ungodly time of day is that to be awake?! I resent having to be up any earlier than 7 if I can avoid it on a normal day. Anyhoo… here’s a quick synopsis of Amsterdam Day 1. As I said above, we got up at 3am to get to the airport in plenty of time. We’d already checked in online, but had to drop off our bags…
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BDSM Test- What’s Changed Since 2022!
Good day you kinky weirdos! If you’ve been following me for a while then you’ll remember that last year I did the BDSM test and wrote about the results on my blog. If not then you can find that particular post here if you’d like to refresh your memory. Even if you don’t want to, part of what I’ll be doing today is looking at what has changed in terms of my kinks over the last year, so if you’re feeling lazy it’s all good bestie, I got you! Now as I said in the previous blog, I think it’s important to assess your sexual kinks every year or so.…
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You Spin Me Right Round Baby Right Round- Photoshoot with CuteKittenKink
Hello hello hello my darlings! It’s been a while since I’ve written anything about my work or my sex life. This blogpost will be about the former. My recent photoshoot with my amazing, sweet and fun friend Kai (otherwise known as Mistress Kat or CuteKittenKink) was over a month ago and I feel now is the perfect time to talk about it. So get a cuppa, settle down and lets talk about what a kink style photoshoot actually looks like, because its not what people assume. Kai got in touch to ask if I’d chaperone them to a photoshoot in a dungeon in Edinburgh. It is wise, for those of…
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Spooky Month Photoshoot- Behind the Masks
TW: Boobs out, horror content and sharps (knife and hatchet) Ahh Spooktober! My favourite month of the year and the time that my creative content turns spooky, taboo, dark and twisty. If you are already familiar with me as a full human, then you’ll know I adore horror. Books, films and games in that genre give me all the happy, plus that unnerved feeling that only comes from a dark, terrifying story. So, when organising my most recent photoshoot I simply had to go full spooky bitch to celebrate my favourite time of year! The photographer I was planning on working with is also a sculptor with loads of masks…
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Let’s Do the BDSM Test!
If you want to know more about you as a kinkster, or even just you as a sexual being, then a good place to start is The BDSM Test. The BDSM test is exactly what it says on the tin, and will ask you a series of questions on activities associated with kink, BDSM and sex in general. All the questions are answered on a sliding scale to give the most accurate results. Even if you don’t think you are kinky at all, or you think you know your kinks pretty well, it’s a good tool to explore and see a side of yourself you may never have considered before.…
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A Summary of 2021
So the Bells have rung and 2021 is now behind us, leaving me feeling reflective. I could be one of those people who are delightfully upbeat and optimistic about the idea of the New Year, with all the potential it could bring… but I’m not one of those people. You’ll get no resolutions from me in 2022, or in any year for that matter. If you can’t keep to a personal challenge the rest of the year, why would making one on January 1st be any different? I prefer to always strive to be a better throughout the year, instead. Enough of that though. This post isn’t about my views…
