That First Blog Post- Why I Started OnlyFans

Hello you gorgeous weirdos, and welcome to my blog. Since this is my first blogpost, I’m going to start with the obvious question I get asked the most, which is why I chose to open an OnlyFans. There will be a YouTube video on this too, so if that’s more your platform, check my channel out here.

So I opened my premium OnlyFans account in January 2021, after being gently bullied by several friends of mine from my personal life and from FabSwingers to start one up. I was very active on the forums on Fab, where I took part in a lot of the photo challenges and it helped my confidence no end. As one of those women who spent most of her teenage years and twenties feeling uncomfortable in her own skin, the response to the pictures was an intoxicating high. I honestly believed I looked like a rejected drawing from Tim Burton’s sketchbook, so finding that confidence to push through that was a revelation (although still a work in progress).

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I had this wonderful friend who had been trying to convince me to open a NSFW swinging Twitter account, which is very common in the swinging and kink scene, but I kept putting it off. Then one wild night at the end of January I decided to take the plunge and jumped into Twitter, Instagram, Reddit, TikTok and OnlyFans all in one mental evening. Am I crazy? I’d say that possibility is above average, but the moment I started being open about my sexual nature I felt this immense sense of freedom that I’ve never experienced before. I’d spent 28 years trying very hard to fit into the box of “normal” and always felt like a cage. Opening my OnlyFans was like breaking out of the cage and shaking out the parts of my personality that I hadn’t been able to express openly my whole adult life. Time to be unapologetically myself, which includes letting my exhibitionist side and kink tendencies out for a good stretch!

I also wanted to use the platform for things outside of pure naughty content. As my personal ambition at the moment is to train as a relationship counsellor and sex therapist, I wanted to use my account as a vlogging and sex positive platform too, with lots of splashes of my colourful and geeky personality. If you’ve been with me since I started, you’ll know that I often drop kink and sex education videos on my social media and OnlyFans accounts, which I plan to continue doing on a bigger scale with my YouTube channel. Sexual liberation should be celebrated, and I plan to celebrate mine by talking about it on an open platform so that maybe I can help guide other fledgling spicy accountants (I love that term!) and kinksters to avoid any of my mistakes and share some of the success.

Most importantly though, I wanted to have fun! As I said above, I’m very much an exhibitionist, kink enthusiast and general lover of sex and I want to show that in everything I do. Which means only making honest content. No faking orgasms, silly overdramatic moaning noises, unsatisfying sex full of acting and uninterested faces… I can’t think of anything more boring! I want to create a platform that truly reflects my personality and desires. So if that means there will be photos of me dressed as a catgirl lapping milk from a bowl while getting my leash tugged, JOI videos of me in domme mode or little vlog videos of me curled up in bed with my boobs out talking about how good the book I’m reading is, then that is exactly the mix I want. True to the nonsense that is me with no ifs or buts.

So yeah, that looks to be the end of the first blogpost. I hope it gives you some insight into my chaotic good brain (and if you get that reference, we have to be friends!!) and you choose to stick around for more madness to come.

As always my darlings: Play safe and have fun! XXX

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